Friday, February 12, 2021

The Valentine's Day Ritual During a Recession



DAVAO CITY, Philippines, I've just pulled up an article saying my fellow countrymen have had not so good luck with Cupid either. Valentine's day is one of those holidays that are designed to reward people with partners and force single people to think something is wrong with them.


Browsing through the romantic displays in our local malls, ravaged by the recession, the bouquets and gifts are as opulent as ever. Perhaps even more than before, but with a bit of price cut since understandably everyone's pockets has holes these days because of certain regulations set because of a certain virus from a certain country. 


Some of the offerings are downright gaudy but that's the appeal, it seems that during these tough and uncertain times, people tend to lean on rituals even if it's quite consumerist. I'm sympathetic to that feeling, at the same time I'm indifferent. 

Nothing says I love you like a giant bouquet during a recession, it's affirmation, a trophy for partners. It's peacocking on social media and it may mask any underlying problems in a relationship. It's reminiscent of better times, before a crisis, or dare I say, back when a couple was actually in love. 


Overall I hope business for the flower sellers, chocolatiers and restaurants have a bit of an uptick though, in the past few years, Valentine's has been pretty much frivolous and disastrous for traffic and basically doing anything, queues everywhere, restaurants all full. 




I'm thankfully single again this year for this date so I'm able to have a more objective view of this consumer ritual, it's very stressful for many people single or attached I'm sure but if you base your love off this day, perhaps it's time for a little romance detox?


 Happy Valentine's day to all!

Sunday, August 16, 2020

A Philosophy on Product Recommendations in a Post-Influencer World

 


Purchasing a product can be either very pleasurable or stressful. It can be simple, but the years and money spent on product and customer research will tell you otherwise. I started out as a beauty blogger for sponsorships, I’ll let you in on this clearly. I found it very chore-like and thought everything I bought was good enough and recommended everything with as much enthusiasm as a TV infomercial.

Later when I stopped blogging for the sake of blogging, ironically only then was I able to choose products with better criteria for myself. Because I was choosing for myself now, with no pretentions and no sponsor to please (though in truth I never had paid sponsorship deals, just a few gifted products to be reviewed).

With a limited budget, as one should move in, and an eye for true value, I set about my criterion post-blogger/post-influencer (though I was never really a significant one) life.

 

Cost performance

I’ve had my spending sprees and miserly moves when it comes to shopping for everything. I’ve had regrets and great buys. Cost is nothing and everything at the same time, so I guess it’s something at the very least. Starting with a small budget allows you to explore at the lowest price points and understand why they’re priced that way, it’s humbling and when you move on to higher price points, you’ll understand why they’re priced that way too. Now cost precedes other factors for MANY people. It’s complicated, that’s another topic. A bigger budget allows for more leeway with purchases, meaning one can buy something expensive that could suck but won’t get so hurt about it compared to someone who HAS to make the right purchase decision because they have a more constrictive budget. If one has more options, it’s either going to be easier for them to choose the better product or harder because they might go in a loop of trying everything out compared to someone with limited choices.

Cost does not necessarily reflect quality, several factors still play out in putting a price of something. From advertising, research, rights, and tariffs, it makes one’s head spin very fast. There are truly mysterious great products out there at a low price point and phenomenal products at a high price point, at the same time spectacularly terrible products with spectacular prices. It’s really a mix of “you get what you paid for” and or “not all that glitters is gold”.

 

Necessity

What a product costs and its value to the buyer can be very close or very far. Something may cost a few dollars but if it’s proven itself to be useful to me than it has basically paid for itself. Like natural selection, nature tends to economize on certain traits or if it’s unnecessary, they tend to become recessive traits or extinct.

A thousand dollar hair cut just for my day to be better since a divorce? I’ll pay in cash. McDonald’s to comfort my crying child after not passing a school play audition? No problem. A million dollar life-saving operation for my husband? Yes even if it bankrupts me.

Humans tend to have different definitions for valuable things and whether the price reflects that or not, seems to not matter in the face of dire need. They will spend on things they view as vital to their life, whether it’s an operation, a vacation or their personal vices, even if it means missing their mortgage payments. It’s crazy, but it’s also a dark reality.

If I think I need something I’ll chuck out the cash and go to the store ASAP. But every once in a while a good value restructuring is necessary. What’s important today might not be what’s important tomorrow.

 

Quality

Quality seems to objective, but it’s actually subjective.

Someone could tell you any shoe is as good as another, as long as there’s something on your feet. But some people have standards, some higher than others, admittedly. You can live without the feeling of a designer that lambskin leather bag in that dyed Tiffany blue with a few Swarovski crystals on its golden hardware. But a bag by many standards now is a necessity, where would you keep all your tear stained receipts from your ATM withdrawals otherwise?

Quality to be is the ability to withstand the drudgery of regular usage in the dreariness of daily life. Whether it be a car, lipstick or a shoe horn. If it’s reliable and won’t fall apart after “the unspecified number of uses”, then it is quality stuff.

But stuff is stuff and it’s inevitable it’ll all be replaced whether we like it or not. Minimalist or not. But in order to lower the turnover rate, save some money and energy, stick with something that won’t fall apart so easily in the era of Made in China.

 

Availability

After careful considerations of the things listed above, it’s time for the acquisition. I’m writing this during the pandemic, in the midst of quarantine. It’s not exactly a wonderful time to go to several stores to look for the best deals, everyone wants to minimize travel. So it’s off to the wild world of the interweb or the nearest place where a product is available.

But there will still be those plucky few that will go to every physical or online store to find the best deals, these are brave heroes post-pandemic, but back in the old days, they’d be the neighborhood miser, coupons and gift certificates under their sleeves and several store membership cards carrying a strange number of points borne from bulk-buying when they couldn’t resist getting that buy 5 gallons of milk and get 1 liter free deals.

The rest of the population like me are getting lazier and lazier. We would like to buy from a stable, reliable source when we run out of mustard-flavored almonds, where the prices are predictable and it can be delivered in a predictable time table.

Bottom-line, if it’s going to be more inconvenience to buy something, people will learn to live without it. As people evolve and give up their mustard-flavored almonds!

Quite the contrary from the Necessity section I wrote but what’s an article without a little contradiction?

 

So there’s my philosophy on perhaps better consumer habits. I won’t be tackling other ethical issues here since that’ll be another complex topic. And I am off still watching or vicariously living off these local YouTubers with their strange rationalized hauls. This is a strange world.


Thursday, September 21, 2017

Nothing in Particular

This blog is really a "nothing in particular" blog. I do things and post things and may not post things. I like cats, makeup, food. Well that's me in a nutshell. I lose focus, I keep focus. I love classics but don't shy away from the new wave. Love me, hate me, irritate me.